By Mark Esposito, Weekend Contributor
Author’s Note: Grace Under Pressure is an ongoing series of posts honoring everyday people who courageously make positive differences in their own lives and consequently in the lives of others. It is my own personal affirmation that unexpected heroes live among us and that their service is quiet but unshakable proof that virtue really is its own reward – and ours, too.
A Pittsburgh area teen thought he was doing the right thing to end his bullying but his audio recording of the abuse only resulted in criminal charges for wiretapping. Sophomore Christian Stanfield had endured a miserable school year at the hands of two classmates who tripped, shoved and even attempted to burn the 15-year-old with a cigarette lighter. Pleas for help to his teacher went unheeded for the teenager who suffers from comprehension delay disorder ( a brain disorder involving slower processing speed for information than is normal) ADHD, and an anxiety disorder. So last month Christian decided to get the proof he needed to make school officials listen. Sitting in his math class, he activated his Ipad as his tormentors launched another verbal fusillade. “”They were talking about pulling his pants down, and some things I can’t repeat, and laughing and cutting up like it was a big joke, it was not a joke, not at all funny,” said Christian’s mother, Shea Love, who heard the recording at her kitchen table that afternoon.
Ms Love was being generous with her words. The actual recording allegedly contained sexual references and demeaning language. With a teacher helping Christian with a math problem one of his bullys is overheard on the tape saying, ““You should pull his pants down!” Another student replies, “No, man. Imagine how bad that (c**t) smells! No one wants to smell that (t**t).” Then, a loud noise is heard—the sound of book being slammed down next to Love’s son after a student feigned hitting him in the head with it. The teacher screams. Laughter follows.
Ms. Love and her son transcribed the audio and then called the principal’s office the following morning to demand some action amid deflections that the school’s hands were tied because the teen had no proof of his abuse. (I guess the teacher missed what was happening directly in front of her.) Principal Scott Milburn told Shea he was going to do something and Shea sent her son to school for the expected remediation. Instead of anger at the perpetrators after confirmation of their bullying, Principal Milburn summoned South Fayette Township Police Lieutenant Robert Kurta to the school to interrogate her son in the presence of the associate principal and the dean of students. With his mother now at work, the four male authority figures threatened to charge the special needs teen with felony wiretap unless he erased the recording. Bullied again, Christian complied and was then told he would be receiving a break – only a misdemeanor charge.
In a rambling decision District Judge Maureen McGraw-Desmet found Christian guilty of disorderly conduct .“Normally, if there is — I certainly have a big problem with any kind of bullying at school. But normally, you know, I would expect a parent would let the school know about it, because it’s not tolerated. I know that, and that you guys [school administrators] would handle that, you know. To go to this extreme, you know, it was the only alternative or something like that, but you weren’t made aware of that and that was kind of what I was curious about. Because it’s not tolerated, but you need to go through — let the school handle it. And I know from experience with South Fayette School that, you know, it always is. And if there is a problem and it continues, then it is usually brought in front of me.” Huh?
Christian and his lawyer had had quite enough of this Pennsylvania justice and appealed the conviction.
Attorney Jonathan Steele took the case saying what happened here was no crime at all and contending Christian attempts to fight back did not trigger the anti-wiretapping laws. In a remark that should top every school discipline handbook, Steele added, “The lesson is zero tolerance doesn’t necessarily mean zero common sense.” After discussions with another reasonable man, District Attorney Stephen Zappala, the charges were dismissed at the appeal hearing.
Mike Manko, a spokesman for Zappala, said Judge Robert Gallo signed the order Thursday to withdraw the citation against the teen.”No one in our office who is authorized to give advice on wiretap issues or school conduct issues was ever contacted in this matter. We have made multiple attempts to contact the officer who wrote the citation and (the) results have been unsuccessful,” Manko said in a written statement. “We do not believe this behavior rises to the level of a citation.”
Christian has returned to school but no discipline has yet been handed down to his tormentors or the look-the-other-way teacher. No evidence exists you see. School Principal Milburn remains at his seat but his chair is getting hotter. Lawyer Steele promises that the case is not over and the hubbub has caught the ear of more enlightened government officials. The U.S. Office of Civil Rights has been contacted and an investigation is in the offing.
South Fayette Township School District Superintendent Bille Rondinelli declined to comment. That’s about the only thing the school district has got right in this case.
Source: WTAE; PINAC; The Foundry
Kudos and thanks to my brother-in-law Mark Daley of Uniontown, PA for bringing this story to my attention.
~Mark Esposito, Weekend Contributor
Free Speech.
Spinelli, none of us has the authority to nominate anyone for a GBer.
anon – I looked it up – he is trolling.
anon, Thank you! I nominate you to be a Gber. All it really took was common sense and integrity.
Feynman,
I understand you feel strongly about this issue, but please let it go or take it up with Professor Turley. It’s clear that Nick is going to ignore you and people who want to read the comments are forced to sift through your repeated attempts to get a response.
feynman,
my recommendation is that you ignore anyone that you do not want to deal with or you think is dealing improperly with you. Of course, no one has the authority to “shut down” a thread except for Professor Turley. Prof. Turley would shut it down and would not suggest to any commenter to shut it down, IMO. So feel free to speak your mind.
Further Paul S
Bullys only get worse if they are not called to account. I see this behavior as escalating.
You don’t solve this kind of a problem by getting “past” it.
If people don’t respond to you how can you consider it bullying? Didn’t bother me then, doesn’t now.
Paul S
Without Professor Turley’s authorization, it is an action of gross intimidation and bullying.
It is not anywhere near your concern about a “brothel”.
Some people just cannot move past an event. I have tried to get response from a couple of people who have not responded. I think someone got their little ‘feelers’ hurt. 😉
Hell, major football coaches make a lot more and can be a lot worse. However, there are many who are not.
Friends,
Sorry for pursuing this. It is a long story, but I’ll keep it short.
A couple of days ago a few of us were engaged on a really long thread. You understand how they evolve and were then discussing the settling of the West.
Mr. Spinelli had not been around for HOURS. Suddenly, he swoops in and tells us we’ve been at it far too long, says it should have ended two hours ago, and we should close it up. He also offered that he was concerned with civility. (I had recently used a descriptor – “dolt”. I ask you, is that how that compares to his use of “nigger” (full spelling) and “Chink”). He did not offer specifics, but I think “dolt” is where he will hang his hat. Upon reflection, I believe the reason he wanted it shut down was because it wasn’t a subject in which he wished to participate.
I’m willing to bet no one has EVER taken such an action on this blog.
I would like Mr. Spinelli to sort this out. I have been asking for two days. Mr. Spinelli will do no sorting out. Mr. Spinelli, did Prof Turley ask you to tell us to shut down that thread?
Again, my apologies to all of you for these interruptions.
you = your
Then there’s NJ Rutgers basketball coach Mike Rice bullying students.
$650,000/year salary. Audio and video got him..
Before the bullies moved in. It’s more like thugland lately.
keebler, my buddy – I have been on for over a month and you just appeared at the same time you conjoined twin did. That was this week. Where were you last month?
Mr. Spinelli,
Sorry to interrupt.
The courtesy of a reply to my inquiry as to your authorization in shutting down our thread the other evening is requested.
Did Prof Turley ask you to shut it down? A simple yes or no will be great.
I don’t understand why you don’t reply. A “yes” would indicate his regard.
Thanks!
Paul,
That is most unkind and an unprovoked attack. It used to be like a family around here.
keebler, good buddy – that was neither unkind or unprovoked. And just when was it like a family around here?
I guess my diagramming of sentences tutorial yesterday was helpful.
Was the first judge hypoglycemic or having a minor stroke?
Samantha, I didn’t say YOU were ignorant. I did however say your notion that gastroenterologist’s were somehow ‘perverted’ because of their involvement with a scatological substance, ignorant. And I went on to explain why it was an ignorant statement by pointing out the fact that the field of gastroenterology is essential in diagnosing and treating such illnesses as colon cancer, Crohn’s and other inflammatory bowell diseases, etc. I can’t in good conscience say your statement was anything less than ignorant.
annie, do you mean “civililty” as in attaching the word “ignorant” to a commenter, as you did yesterday? You are an incredible disciple of wants-both-ways hypocrisy.
Are you cyberstalking me Paul. Please don’t.
keebler – why would I cyberstalk or stalk you in any manner? If you disappeared from this blog I would not be concerned.